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Why We Overlook Red Flags

If you’ve ever looked back on a relationship and wondered how you missed the signs, you’re not alone. This article explores the deeper reasons we often overlook red flags and explains how patterns from the past shape our choices. Discover strategies to recognise red flags sooner, protect your wellbeing, and build healthier connections.

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Childhood Emotional Neglect

Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) is often invisible, yet it can leave lasting imprints on self-worth, emotional awareness, and relationships. This article explains what CEN really is, how it shows up in adult life, and why it’s so often missed. You’ll also learn key signs to watch for and compassionate steps you can take to begin healing.

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Trauma’s Hidden Effects

Trauma is more than a difficult memory. It affects both mind and body, shaping how we feel, think, and connect with others. This article explores different types of trauma, common signs of unprocessed experiences, and why healing requires safety, connection, and self-compassion. Discover how understanding trauma can be the first step toward recovery.

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The Inner Critic

Discover why we all have an inner critic and how this internal voice affects self-esteem, confidence, and perfectionism. This article explores where the critic comes from, how it relates to early experiences, and why it can feel so powerful. You’ll also learn practical, compassionate strategies to quiet self-critical thoughts and build a kinder, more supportive relationship with yourself.

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The Power of Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is a powerful, realistic way to treat yourself with kindness and understanding, especially when healing from trauma, childhood emotional neglect, or dealing with a harsh inner critic. This article explains what self-compassion really means, why it matters for emotional healing, and offers practical ways to start practicing it in your daily life.

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Managing Holiday Mental Health

The holiday season isn’t joyful for everyone. For many, it brings emotional challenges, financial stress, and increased pressure, especially for those with trauma or difficult family situations. This article explores why the holidays can be tough and offers practical strategies, including self-compassion and connection, to support your mental health during this time.

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Resources

Please note: Alicia Merlino is not a crisis service. If you are in immediate need of support or are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact one of the following services listed below.

Lifeline

24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention services.

Call: 13 11 14

Suicide Call Back Service

Free nationwide telephone and online counselling for people affected by suicide.

Call: 1300 659 467

Beyond Blue

Support for anxiety, depression, and suicide prevention. Offers phone and online chat services.

Call: 1300 22 4636

Kids Helpline

24/7 phone and online counselling service for young people aged 5 to 25.

Call: 1800 55 1800

NSW Mental Health Line

24/7 crisis support and mental health advice.

Call: 1800 011 511